How to recognize dating violence?
Dating violence is a seizure of power and control over the other partner. It is distinguished by a repetitive cycle which can increase in intensity over the course of the relationship.
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I can not dress as I like!
Sometimes, when he is angry, he squeezes my arm or pushes me.
When I refuse to make love, he gets angry or sulks! I have to give in if I want to avoid conflicts.
My friends are not good enough for him, he controls my comings and goings.
He monitors my actions on social media.
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Examples of consequences for the victim.
Depression
I no longer want to do anything. I’m always tired.
Low self-esteem
I find myself lousy and good-for-nothing.
Nervousness and Anxiety
I sometimes feel as if I’m suffocating, I’m trembling and startle without reason.
Isolation
I no longer see my friends. I feel lonely.
Loss of concentration or motivation
My grades are dropping.
Examples of consequences for the aggressor.
I can get arrested by the Police.
I can lose my entourage.
I don’t feel well, I always feel angry, etc…
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These are just a few examples. Violence can make you live various emotions and generate several consequences. It is important to recognize them in order to put an end to the cycle of violence.